I often see such suggestions. Are you sure what you are saying? I had a couple of girlfriends who wanted their boyfriends back. It was during my student days. They paid the money and were left without money and without a boyfriend. Fate cannot be fooled. I didn't tell them that everything would be okay. This must be experienced. But I gave them advice to use a dating site,
check here. And they listened to me. Now they no longer grieve about the past because they have a new relationship.