TTC for 12 months +

Fingers crossed for you Roubaix! And wishing you the best for your next round, Star.

After dealing with my mc last year we transferred our last embryo and am slightly in denial that I'm pregnant. We had our scan last week with a little heartbeat.

Congrats ADN!!!

Our ivf bubba turns 1 today, it's gone so fast!
And just past the 13 week mark with this wee surprise one! So all is good here.

Star hope your going well.

BFN. Time to think about what we do next. 😩

Ugh, dumb Roubaix. So sorry 😢 what now for you?

Congrats ADN, everything crossed for you. When I was pregnant I was in denial until past the 20wk scan. It was so strange, everyone would say congrats but I just felt removed from it all. Self-protection I suppose. I really hope it’s a sticky one and you can relax soon x

EC for me tomorrow 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Thanks Roubaix. We got 6 eggs, apparently 5 look mature. DH was disappointed to hear his sperm had 44% antibodies and that’s irreversible- but hey, still more than enough to create magic! Now we wait...

I understand wanting to keep going ASAP. I hope your hysteroscopy goes well tomorrow 🤞🏻

Sorry to hear that Star. But try and keep hope alive with the thought all you need is one. I've never heard of a day 2 transfer, but I guess when there's only one there's really no point in waiting to see how it develops? Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Hysteroscopy went fine and everything looks normal so no magic solution there.

Hope you're doing ok Star. After wanting to start again immediately, we've decided to wait another cycle, so will likely be the end of April. Partly so that my body has a bit more time to prepare, but also because if by some miracle we had a successful fresh transfer I'd be due right around the day of my little sister's wedding. She'd be a bit disappointed if I couldn't travel (just to Queenstown) because I was giving birth - especially as she lives in the UK so it's quite a big deal for her to come home to get married. So in those circumstances, another month is ok to wait - even though I hate waiting!! (Although now that I'm writing that out, maybe we should go ahead in a couple of weeks - sod's law would probably guarantee a successful cycle)

Thanks ladies. BFN as expected. Wasn’t expecting good news so I’m ok. DH has been in a dark place though, tells me he feels “ripped off”. 🙁 I get that not every cycle is a good one but I guess it stings more when it’s your own $. Our plan now is to wait until we come up on public funding, probably feb next year.

Dumb about waiting Roubaix but I see your thinking... although there’s probably a limit on how close to due date you can fly (I think maybe no flying in the last month?)... Then again maybe better not to check that, Murphy’s law may still back you for next cycle 🤞🏻😜

Hey everyone! It’s been ages since I popped in here. I haven’t been able to go back and read thru everything, but I will soon. I just wanted to say our miracle finally arrived on 20/3/19. After 6 years of ttc, 6 miscarriages (including an ectopic), 3 failed ivf cycles, 1 failed round of ivf with donor eggs, our beautiful little boy was born. We found a second donor and it finally worked!!! We’re over the moon and totally in love. It took 6 years of heartache but we finally made it.

I just realized I posted the wrong email address ages ago if anyone wanted to pm me. It’s scollin2@hotmail.com

Sending lots of love to those who helped me through the hardest times a few years ago. Xx

Star, I'm so sorry this cycle didn't work the way it should have and you are now on the end of it all. I can understand how hubby feels. I felt the same way.
I didn't know they could do a day 2 transfer. The things you learn.

A.girl congrats on your arrival. Enjoy your little bundle.

With time getting closer to June I am now starting to think about another transfer. Today I turn 34 and I think it has put it into perspective that time is short. I think I am finally ready to move forward and try our next transfer....

Hope all you otherladies are well xx